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Helpful Sex Education For Parents

By Claudine Hodges


Parents play a very important role in educating children because most children trust their guardians more than other person. Sex education for parents helps guardians present the true facts on sex to their children in the correct manner. School curricula has one or two topics on sex education, but most children would prefer to ask their questions at home rather than in the midst of friends at school.

It has been established through a study that children who become sexually active early are usually from homes where sex is not talked about with them. This is because children believe any information they get from their parents than from any other source. Teachings on issues relating to human sexuality is only mentioned a few times, but guardians have the opportunity to provide continuous information anytime the child does ask.

The school should give their children all the information they need on any issue including sex. The schools are reluctant to bring up the issue. Most fathers shy away from the sex discussion, especially with their female children. It is not a good thing to give information with a lot of ambiguity. Mothers talk more, but have difficulty explaining things to boys. Some societies and religions discourage talking about sex. Parents falling in these societies may never bring the issue up.

Parents need to prepare for the topic of sex to teach their children. They can read books and online materials that are appropriate for the age group of their children. It is also important for guardians to prepare in advance rather than wait for their children to begin asking questions. It is better to be prepared than to not be at all.

Guardians need to give the information on sex to children little by little rather than giving all the information in one sitting. This way, a lasting impression would be made on the mind of the child all their life. It also makes children feel comfortable expressing their own concerns. Teaching on issues relating to human sexuality should begin before the child attains puberty, so they know the changes to look for in their bodies in the years to come.

Parents need to answer children's concerns about sex with as much openness as possible. Answers to questions have to be straight to the point. They should also be explanatory without any ambiguity. Children would normally want to know the reasons why they are not to do something. Guardians should do their best to address all these. Parents should be very honest when they do not have answers to a question.

The right moment to talk about sex is what most guardians are unable to determine. The moments of starting education on sex education is when the child asks a related question. It can also be when something sexual comes up on the television while the child is watching.

Parents may also discuss sex when they suspect the child has related issues, but may not want to talk about it. Children get information on sex from a variety of sources, and it is up to the guardians to show them which is correct.




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